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Saturday, May 29, 2010

Theres comes a time

When honestly is needed. When honesty is "the best policy" Yet sometimes you have to wonder at what point does honesty become too much? When does it change from being the best thing for you to the worst thing that could ever possibly happen? I've always prided myself on being honest with others-to a certain point. When a friend asks you "Does this dress make me look good" when in fact it compliments her horribly, instead of actually saying that you'd use euphemism to slyly tell her that its not her best option.

However, does this rule apply to friends and boys? When a friend likes the same guy you like and then starts going out with him, what do you say when she asks "Why aren't you happy for me?". Do you lie and play it off while seeing them together could very much eat you alive? Or do you be honest and tell her that you've had feelings for this guy for as long as you can remember? & if the answer to my question is the second one-what then becomes of the two friends? Sure the fairytale ending tells us that the friend with the boy gives him up and the two friends live happily ever after. But fairy tales do not exist in this world-they in fact should be shot for instilling such radical fantasies in today's youth. No, in reality the friend with the boy is NOT going to want to release her claim-and why should she? She got him "fair and square" and so on and so on. Its a vicious little cycle that leaves no survivors: only broken hearts, friendships, and everything else in between.

The winds of change are in the air, and who knows what they bring.
One thing is for sure: this town is about to be rocked.

"Pon de replay"
-V

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